I got liquidated 3 times until I started making mo...
I got liquidated 3 times until I started making money in trading.
Everyone says find a strategy, build “discipline”, then you’ll make money.
This is the most bullshit and misleading advice of retail trading.
Because discipline can NEVER be “practiced” into existence like a habit. You CAN'T train it like a sport where repetition makes you better.
That fake discipline works fine until real pressure hits, then you completely fall apart.
No strategy will ever work on you if your mind is the weakest part of your setup.
Because here’s the ugly truth
If life hasn’t broken you (multiple times) before, you simply don’t have the psychological resilience to REPLICATE the discipline in traders you admire.
Their strategy works because it’s PAIRED with a level of INNER RESILIENCE most haven’t earned yet.
The calm you see in profitable traders wasn't “practiced.”
It was forged from surviving enough PAIN that their old instincts had NO CHOICE but to DIE.
Their discipline came from DESTRUCTION, not DETERMINATION.
With luck and fake discipline you can make money, but you sure as hell can’t keep it for long.
So HOW to get "REAL" discipline?
You cannot “gradually” grow discipline over time.
It happens very suddenly and violently, usually at your lowest point when your old self finally gets ripped apart.
It’s like arguing with someone. Some people stay ice cold and say exactly what destroys the other person. Others break down crying.
The difference isn’t “self control.”
It’s that the calm one has already survived far worse, so this moment means nothing to them. Chaos doesn’t touch them because they’ve seen bigger storms, not because they “practiced patience.”
So if you're in your lowest point right now, don't waste it
People don’t get many chances in life to experience metamorphosis.
If you waste all that emotional energy attacking the world or pushing away the people who love you, you’re burning fuel that should be used on yourself.
Put that energy into your own damn evolution.
Put it into the quiet moments where you sit down and actually face your shame and fear.
Start by writing down the 30 things you are most afraid of or most ashamed of.
It sounds small, but it’s huge, because the version of you who is “doing well” would never have the guts to face that list.
A lot of people think the secret to trading is more strategies, more macro research, more knowledge.
They’re wrong.
It's stepping completely outside of trading to recognize and accept your broken parts. Your demons.
And STOP studying people's success!
Study how they survived their lowest point instead
People love calling someone smart or disciplined, then they copy their routines like it'll magically work.
It won't. You can't copy success because half of it is luck, timing, and advantages you don't have.
But you can learn from how they fell apart and got back up:
How they handled losing everything
How they kept going when most would quit
How they turned pain into power instead of self-hatred
Those parts are real. Those parts can be copied.
Those parts are earned through fire, not gifted by genetics or privilege.
Success is personal. But the path of dying, rebuilding and coming back stronger is universal.
And it’s the only damn part worth copying.
